Jul 29, 2025  •  In Beauty, Korean, Personal, Reviews, Shopping

Simplified Skincare Routine at 44

I’m turning 45 in December. I no longer have the time or patience for a 10-step skincare routine. I’ve found what works well for me, and I’ve stuck to it for the past year. And my skin still looks pretty good for my age — very minimal fine lines and the occasional breakout.

The biggest thing I’ve stopped using is prescription tretinoin. Or any type of retinol at all. I know it’s the #1 ingredient against aging skin, but my skin has gotten more sensitive over the years and I couldn’t even tolerate the lowest 0.02% dose. Over-the-counter retinol dries out my skin and I get flaky. I’ve also developed mild rosacea so I need to be very mindful about potentially irritating ingredients.

So here is my simplified skincare routine, at the age of 44. And I must say I’m pretty happy with the results. (Some of the linked products are affiliate links, meaning I get commission for purchases or clicks made through those links in this post.)

Cleanser, oil-based:

I prefer cleansing balms to cleansing oils, and the Aprilskin Carrotene IPMP Hydromelt Cleansing Balm takes the top spot. It dethroned my previous favorite, the Then I Met You Living Cleansing Balm, because it performs just as well for $10 cheaper. It melts away all my sunscreen and makeup at the end of the day and rinses clean. I know Aprilskin also markets this product for blackhead removal but I don’t use it that way.

Cleanser, water-based:

I admit that I have a perhaps-not-so-healthy preference for cleansers, and it’s that they must leave my face squeaky clean. I know these types of cleansers usually have a high pH level and can be stripping, but that’s just my preference and besides, I moisturize right afterwards.

The Dewytree Hi Amino All Cleanser is one of those cleansers that leaves your skin clean. It has a very slight, fresh scent and isn’t too drying. You only need a pea-sized amount and it foams up nicely. I’m not sure if the amino acids actually do anything for my skin, but I have tried other cleansers through the years and always come back to this one. Plus, at $16, it’s at a great price.

Treatment:

I know the VT Cosmetics Cica Reedle Shot 100 is a controversial product because it contains micro spicules that can potentially damage your skin. Does it hurt? Well, you can definitely feel the reedles as you massage it onto your face. But ever since I started using this product, the products I use afterward definitely absorb better into the skin and their effectiveness increased. The texture of my skin has improved, and when I do get a pimple, they disappear much faster. (When I do breakout, I rub a some extra reedle shot into area and the pimple is usually gone within the next 1-2 days.) I haven’t tried the 50 which is supposed to be gentler, but I see no reason to go up to the 300 or 700 since the 100 is working so well for me.

Serum:

I first purchased the Anua Azelaic Acid 10 Hyaluron Redness Soothing Serum to help with my rosacea. Although I liked the texture and how it moisturized my skin, I must admit that I didn’t see that much difference in my redness until I started using it in conjunction with the reedle shot. But now that I’ve found a combination that works, I’m sticking with it.

Moisturizer:

If you know anything about Korean skincare, you must know that PDRN has been all the rage for the past year or so. I first came across the Heveblue Salmon Caring Centella Cream on Instagram and learned that it was one of the best-selling moisturizers at Olive Young (the biggest beauty retailer in Korea). In fact, when I first tried to place an order via the Olive Young Global site, it was sold out.

Luckily, Heveblue has an Amazon storefront and I was able to obtain a bottle. What makes the Heveblue cream so effective is that it has a staggering 5,000ppm of PDRN, one of the highest concentrations available over the counter in Korea. It also contains centella leaf water and madecassoside, two very calming, healing ingredients in skincare.

The Heveblue Salmon Caring Centella Cream is pretty rich, so I only use it at night. But I swear that since having started using it, the fine lines around my eyes have disappeared. And at $28.70, it’s a lot less expensive than other creams I’ve used and loved in the past.

Sunscreen:

I first wrote about the Saint Jane Luxury Sun Ritual Pore Smoothing Face Sunscreen SPF 30 two years ago, so I must have been using it for at least that long. I’ve tried other sunscreens during this time, but the Saint Jane sunscreen beats them all.

I’m indoors most of the time, so I don’t need SPF 50+. The difference between SPF 30 is SPF 50 is only 1% anyway. (And this sunscreen worked perfectly fine when I used it on last year’s vacation in Cancun.) All I know is that this product really is a primer and sunscreen in one, and it beats other standalone primers. As the name says, it does smooth the pores and leaves the perfect canvas for makeup.

At $38, it’s the most expensive product in my routine. But I haven’t found any sunscreen, even Korean and Japanese ones, that beat it. (And with tariffs in addition to the FDA crackdown, Asian sunscreens are becoming more difficult and expensive to purchase.)

So that’s it. My morning routine is simple:

  1. Water cleanser
  2. Anua serum
  3. Sunscreen

My evening routine is as follows:

  1. Oil cleanser
  2. Water cleanser
  3. Reedle shot
  4. Anua serum
  5. Heveblue moisturizer

As stated above, I’ve been using these products for the past year or so and I’m very happy with the results. At this point in my life, the goal is to prevent new lines and wrinkles, keep my skin calm and healthy, and prevent/treat breakouts. I’ve found this mostly-Korean routine to not only be cheaper than other products I’ve used in the past, they’re more effective.

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Jul 28, 2025  •  In Personal, Reviews, Shopping, Web

Covry Glasses Review

I wear contact lenses most of the day, but I switch to glasses at night. For the past decade or so I’ve used vision insurance for my contacts (don’t you love how most vision plans only cover glasses or contacts?) and gotten my glasses from various online retailers, mostly Warby Parker.

I don’t think I ever realized that my glasses never fit correctly — I just assumed that the constant sliding off my face and touching my cheeks when I smile were how all glasses fit. Hence, I hardly ever wore glasses during the day because they were a PITA to wear.

I first heard about low bridge fit glasses a few years ago, but didn’t pay it much mind. I knew that Warby Parker carried them, but didn’t like the styles. But when it came time to get a new pair of glasses earlier this year, I came across Covry — a glasses company that specializes in low bridge fit glasses, called Elevated Fit. They had a home try-on program, so I figured why not and ordered 5 frames to try for myself.

Oh, my lord. So this is how glasses are supposed to fit. Yes, I know that most Asians have low nose bridges and after all, I’m an Asian. But never had I tried on glasses that fit this well.

An extra perk was that these frames were better quality than those from Warby Parker.

I immediately fell in love with one of the frames: the Vela Amber. So I placed my order.

I love Covry’s glasses, but I didn’t love their customer service.

Covry states on their website that orders with prescription lenses are processed within 3 weeks, so I waited. And waited.

Just before hitting the 3-week mark, I shot them an email inquiring about my order. They replied the next day, telling me that I need to send them my prescription. What? I had sent them my prescription right after placing my order.

So for 3 weeks, they had sat on an order for prescription glasses, apparently in need of my prescription but never contacting me about it. Who knows what happened to the original email I sent them with my prescription?

I re-sent my prescription, expressing my disappointment with what had happened. I never received a response.

A full day after re-sending my prescription and with no peep from them, I decided to try calling the physical Covry store. They were no help to me because apparently the online store is on a completely different system from the physical store. I decided to try social media, and DM’ed the Covry Instagram account.

Their social media manager got back to me the next day. They said the team had sent me an email telling me they needed my prescription. I told them, yes, I received that email and I had re-sent them my prescription — did they get it? And almost a full day later, they finally got back to me via Instagram that they did, in fact, receive my prescription and my glasses will be in the works.

They apologized for the inconvenience and told me that they will upgrade the shipping on my glasses to priority and will include a designer lens cloth of my choice. Again, this was all done via Instagram and not with their customer support team via email.

I received my glasses, with the free lens cloth, within a week.

think I can guess what happened, and it’s that my emails sent from my email address (using the geekinheels.com domain) sometimes gets sent to spam folders. Still, it was no excuse for them to wait 3 weeks on a pending order and for all communications to be done via Instagram DM.

Despite what happened, I am so, so happy with my glasses. They fit so well on my face and are high quality.

I love the case and the accessories included in the order too. Inside the case were a microfiber bag and a microfiber cleaning cloth. I didn’t need the designer lens cloth, after all.

I love my glasses so much that I’ve sometimes started to wear glasses during the day. If you’re curious about Covry’s Elevated Fit vs Warby Parker’s Low Bridge Fit, I found a Reddit post that gives details, with pictures. Given what the poster says, I’m glad I went with Covry vs. Warby Parker.

I know that JINS is another company that offers low bridge fit glasses. But they don’t have a home try-on program and virtual try-ons never worked well for me.

Given what happened with the ordering process, would I order from Covry again? I think I would, because I love their glasses so much. But next time, I would use my Gmail address.

 

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Jul 26, 2025  •  In Beauty, Personal, Reviews, Shopping

New HG? Carolina Herrera Foundation Review

Carolina Herrera has released a new foundation: the Nude Couture Triple Moisture Serum Foundation, and it just might be my HG base product. In other words, if I could design my own foundation — light to medium buildable coverage, glowy finish, lightweight, no scent, long-lasting — this would be it.

The Carolina Herrera foundation comes in 16 flexible shades and acts more like a skin tint/tinted moisturizer than a full-on foundation. The coverage is light but buildable to medium and it leaves a dewy finish. While some dewy/moisturizing foundations can emphasize the texture on my face, this foundation just leaves an airbrushed look that evens out my complexion without covering up too much.

While I had oily/combination skin in my younger years, with age my skin has become dry. I need all the moisture I can get and this foundation certainly delivers:

Micronized shea butter provides weightless, long-lasting hydration, while panthenol and glycerin help prevent moisture loss by forming a lightweight skin barrier that retains skin’s hydration. Avocado-oil coated pigments make coverage more lightweight and seamless when blended into skin. Jasmine extract is known for its radiance-boosting properties.

I guessed my shade based on the swatches online and I chose correctly. The shade F160 is for fair skin with yellow undertones and while it isn’t an exact match, the foundation is sheer enough that it blends perfectly into my skin.

Here is a picture of me right after I applied makeup:

Other products used (some of the linked products are affiliate links, meaning I get commission for purchases or clicks made through those links in this post.): 

As you can see, the Carolina Herrera foundation leaves a smooth, healthy-looking finish without covering up too much. In places I want more coverage, I simply apply an additional layer and the foundation delivers without leaving a cakey mess.

Does the Caroline Herrera foundation last all day? Well, at about the 5-6 hour mark it does start to fade. It doesn’t separate or cake up or settle into lines — it fades without looking splotchy or ugly. Here is a shot I took 5 hours after applying my makeup:

As you can see, the foundation has faded a bit on my cheeks and around my nose. But it has faded in a natural, almost pretty way. And just to push it a bit further, here’s a picture taken 10 hours after first applying my makeup:

I was working outside today in the heat so I sweat quite a bit. I’ve also applied another lip product, the Chanel Le Rouge Due Ultra Tenue in Red Brown. As you can see the Carolina Herrera foundation stayed on well still looks pretty at the end of the day.

At $70 the Carolina Herrera Nude Couture Triple Moisture Serum Foundation is by no means inexpensive. But it performs so well and is everything I look for in a foundation. I have very well found my new HG foundation and I’m so happy I decided to snatch it up at Nordstrom’s before they sold out.

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Jun 4, 2025  •  In Funny, Shopping, Web

Every Costco Parking Lot

They forgot the guy who takes forever to load his car, then walks back into the store (with no indication of this given to the person patiently waiting for the spot). 😂

Via Reddit.

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Feb 24, 2025  •  In Blogging, Home, Personal

Life Update, 1 Year Later

It may seem as though I’ve forgotten about this blog, but I’ve kept up with the WordPress updates, regularly delete spam comments, and constantly have it in the back of my mind.

So why another long lapse between updates? To be frank, my life is boring. Life is good, but boring with not much to talk about. I know I used to blog a lot about my kids, but I swore back then — and still keep with the pledge — that I will not write about them too much as they get older. When they were babies, I felt more comfortable writing about them because they hadn’t developed into their own yet. But now that they’re teenagers (and even when they were elementary school-aged kids), I want to respect their privacies. And because so much of my life revolves around their lives now, there isn’t much to blog about.

In my last post, I wrote about getting surgery to stop my neverending period. I’m happy to say that the surgery worked…perhaps a bit too well. Post surgery, I had light bleeding for a couple of days, which was expected. About 2 weeks after the surgery I had a normal period…and that was it. I have not had a period for almost a year now. When I spoke to my OB about it, he said that this is most likely due to my birth control pills (I was re-prescribed Natazia, the brand I had been one before my problems began). I have no other signs of menopause so he does not think it’s early menopause. He said if I want to get my periods back I can try stop taking the pills, but a life blood-free is far better.

A few posts back I had also mentioned that my father had been diagnosed with leukemia. I’m happy to report that he is still in remission, and even his oncologist is amazed by his progress. My parents say that moving to Texas probably saved his life. If they had still been living in New York at the time of his diagnosis, he may not have survived because getting treatment would have been more difficult and expensive. The hospital in TX where my father is getting treated for his cancer gave him top-notch care, with a private room for recovery, the latest and greatest in medicine for his cancer, and even helped with the bills.

The only hardship I’m currently going through these days is the state of our country, the government, and politics. I was devastated when Kamala Harris lost the presidency and even just a short 6 weeks into his second term, Trump is turning this country into a mockery of its former self. And if things keep going the way they have been, a scary 4 years await us. I live in New York, which is undoubtedly a blue state, but I live in an area where there are a lot of Republicans and Trump supporters. I started carrying around my U.S. passport card in my wallet, just in case.

So that’s a somewhat brief 1-year update. Hopefully I will find some inspiration to blog somewhat more regularly. And since I like to include a picture with every post, here’s one I took of our new GE Profile Washer-Dryer combo unit:

I received this $2000 unit FREE from Influenster. I know many people detest Influenster for flooding e-commerce sites with incentivized reviews, but I have received quite a few great things from them, including this washer-dryer, a laser printer, tons of cosmetics, and even a pair of winter boots for J. I highly recommend you sign up for an account if you don’t already have one.

If there’s anyone from the old days still reading this blog, I’d love to know how you’re doing, what you’ve been up to, etc. Leave a comment!

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Feb 13, 2024  •  In Personal

The Neverending Period

I’m sorry if this is TMI for some people, but I have been dealing with this condition for over a year and I’m finally going the surgical route in order to try to fix it. What is this condition? Well, I have had my period since September 2022. Yes, you read that correctly. I have been bleeding continuously for the past year and five months.

It all started when I had to change my brand of birth control pills. My insurance no longer covered my old brand Natazia (which I loved but is apparently too expensive and has no generic equivalent), so I had to switch to another generic brand. My OB tried her best to match me to a pill that wasn’t that different from my old one, and I thought everything was fine…

But a month after I started the new pack of pills, I got my period and it wouldn’t stop.

I can’t be sure it was the new pills. Maybe that was just the trigger. Was it perimenopause? Perhaps. (I turned 43 in December, so it’s a possibility.) Was it a hormonal imbalance? Maybe. Nonetheless, I returned to the OB a couple of months later and she recommended another brand of pills.

Needless to say, that didn’t work.

Because we wanted to give these pills at least a couple of months to try to work, this process took a while. At the next appointment, they took my blood to test my hormone levels and for other abnormalities. Everything was within normal range. We also scheduled a full pelvic ultrasound, and found nothing abnormal.

By the time the next appointment rolled around, it had been a full year since the bleeding had begun. I asked about getting an IUD, because I know that a lot of my girlfriends said they stopped getting their periods with an IUD. My OB agreed, and she prescribed the Mirena.

The IUD took another month to order, get approved with insurance, schedule the procedure, etc.

The IUD didn’t work either.

My doctor prescribed birth control pills on top of the IUD, and additionally put me on a 10-day dose of antibiotics, just in case. No dice.

Now we’re at the surgical options.

On Thursday, I will undergo a hysteroscopy with diagnostic D&C. The doctor will scrape the lining of my uterus and hopefully remove any of the tissue that is causing the prolonged bleeding. The tissue will be sent to the lab for testing afterwards. It’s a small surgical procedure with little risk but a surgical procedure nonetheless.

The doctor said that if that doesn’t work, he would recommend an endometrial ablation, where he would destroy the lining of the uterus using heat. He asked if I have kids, and if I plan on having more, because this procedure would not allow me to get pregnant in the future. Since J and I are done having kids, I said I am fine with this procedure if it comes to it.

The last option would be a hysterectomy.

But one day at a time. I’m really hoping that Thursday’s procedure will work. Because it’s getting hard to remember how it was like when I was not bleeding. And, because it’s become such a PITA, I am willing to get a hysterectomy, if that’s what it comes down to.

On Thursday, the doctor will be removing my IUD as well, because he can’t exactly do the procedure with it being in the way. J’s company has changed insurance carriers since this whole debacle began and I’m pretty sure the new insurance company covers Natazia (my original birth control pills). So after the removal of my IUD, I’m going to ask my doctor for a prescription for Natazia.

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Sep 6, 2023  •  In Beauty, Personal, Shopping

My Top 7 Foundations

In the past, I used to be more comfortable with my bare face but after I hit my late 30s (I’m currently 42), I found myself reaching for face makeup more often. As such, I have tried tons of foundations — in various finishes, coverage, and price points. And while I recommended only one in year’s Sephora spring sale post, I tend to rotate my foundations depending on my mood. And the following seven, in no particular order, are my all-time favorites. (Some of the linked products are affiliate links, meaning I get commission for purchases or clicks made through those links in this post.)

Pat McGrath Sublime Perfection Foundation, $69:

This foundation has light to medium coverage, with a natural finish that isn’t too matte or too radiant. I use the shade Light 3 and on me, the sheer wash of color leaves a smooth, almost-airbrushed look. It isn’t the longest lasting or transfer-proof but with primer, I can make it last the whole day. It has remained one of my favorite foundations since its debut in 2020.

Armani Beauty Luminous Silk Perfect Glow Flawless Oil-Free Foundation, $69

It seems like the Luminous Silk foundation has been around for ages, and now that I’ve looked up its release date (the year 2000), it practically has, in the fast-evolving world of makeup. I still remember driving to Tysons Corner from Baltimore when I was in college to pick up a bottle of this foundation for the first time.

I stopped wearing this foundation in my mid-to-late twenties, but in the past few years have I started to love it again. It is a cult favorite for a reason — it doesn’t just cover, it evens everything out and gives my skin a flawless finish without being heavy. I wear the shade 3 and it leaves just such a pretty finish to my face.

Dior Backstage Face & Body Foundation, $43

This is the foundation I turn to when I want something akin to a skin tint. The coverage is sheer but can be built up to medium, and out of all the foundations on this list, this is the least heavy feeling with a very natural finish. I wear the shade 1W and it usually lasts the whole day for me.

Tom Ford Shade and Illuminate Soft Radiance Foundation, $150

I wish this foundation weren’t so expensive, but even at this price point it makes this list because I think it’s worth the money. The Nordstrom product page describes it as a “medium- to full-coverage foundation with three-dimensional radiance that reflects soft light” and it couldn’t be more apt. There’s something about this formula that leaves a softly radiant finish to your skin that you can’t replicate with highlighter or finishing powder. I wear the shade 1.1 Warm Sand and it leaves a luminous, perfected look to my skin that’s simply divine.

Nars Light Reflecting Advanced Skincare Foundation, $50

This is another medium coverage foundation with a natural finish. It leaves a beautiful finish that just makes your skin look healthy. I’m not too sure about the claimed skincare benefits but even if they’re nothing but marketing gimmicks, I would still love this foundation. I wear the shade L3 Gobi and it always imparts such a smooth, softly glowing look to my skin.

La Mer The Soft Fluid Longwear Foundation, $145

Here is another expensive foundation that, IMHO, is totally worth the price. The coverage is sheer to medium with a very skinlike finish. It supposedly contains the La Mer “broth” that is the hallmark ingredient to its skincare products, so it’s a foundation and skincare in one. I wear the shade 130 Warm Ivory and every time I wear it, I feel like I’m having a good skin day.

Laura Mercier Real Flawless Weightless Perfecting Foundation, $48

This foundation is probably the longest-wearing of all the foundations on this list. And like most on this list, it is a medium-coverage foundation with a natural finish. The name says weightless and it does feel like practically nothing on the face. I wear the shade 0W1 Satin and every time I wear this foundation, my skin looks airbrushed and blurred.

What are your favorite foundations at the moment? Do any on this list make it to your list of favorites?

Next time, I’ll list my favorite concealers!

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Jun 25, 2023  •  In Art/Design, Entertainment, Marketing/Advertising, Web

Secret Invasion Ads, Remixed

Have you heard of Secret Invasion, the latest lineup in the MCU’s Disney+ shows? The first episode only just aired this past week and I gotta say I like what I’ve seen so far. If you have heard of the show, I’m sure you’ve encountered the visually fractured ads that have been all over the internet the past few weeks. Well, Redditor King-Owl-House remixed these ads to include other characters the actors have played in the past with great results. Check them out!

Samuel L. Jackson, Nick Fury and Jules Winnfield:

Cobie Smulders, Maria Hill and Robin Scherbatsky (aka Robin Sparkles):

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Jun 20, 2023  •  In Entertainment, Marketing/Advertising, Reviews, Web

#YouAreAwful

Have you watched season 6 of Black Mirror yet? The first episode is titled “Joan is Awful” and it stars Annie Murphy as Joan, who discovers a Streamberry (a streaming service that is eerily similar to Netflix) show called “Joan is Awful” (starring Salma Hayek!) based on her life.

Well, Netflix has now released a promotional site that lets you “sign up” to Streamberry, take or upload a picture, and voilà! You are greeted with your own “____ is Awful” show.

You can even download a digital image advertising your show:

Kudos on a clever way to promote what is probably the most talked-about show of the new season! (Just a heads up, though…if you decide to use this site, your uploaded picture may be used to promote the show/website.)

Try your own version at https://youareawful.com/

P.S. — My favorite episode of this season was “Loch Henry.” It had horror, it had grit, it had gore, and it was completely believable. Which was your favorite of this season?

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Jun 18, 2023  •  In Personal

Happy Father’s Day

Happy Father’s Day to all the fathers out there! J has been away this week on a business trip and will not return until late tonight so we already gave him his gifts before he left. The picture below popped up on my Facebook memories and I couldn’t had a chuckle over how little our girls used to be.

My own father is in Texas so I am not able to spend the day with him. Two months ago, he was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia. This came as a complete shock to us — he already suffers from chronic hepatitis B, so his health is already fragile. He had been admitted to the hospital for vomiting blood; the cause was esophageal varices due to cirrhosis of the liver. The varices were clipped, but the doctors were concerned because his platelet counts were so low, and they continued to stay low even with transfusions. That’s when they discovered the leukemia.

My father stayed in the hospital for a month and a half, receiving chemo and recovering. Luckily, he had a great oncologist and after just that course of chemo, he went into remission. Before my father’s diagnosis, I wasn’t aware that going into remission technically means (at least for acute myeloid leukemia) that there are less than 5% cancerous cells in your blood and bone marrow. So there are still “bad” cells in his body, but they are under control.

The oncologist says that my father has mutations in his blood that need addressing. So he’s going through more chemo, but not as intense as last time. He can do this as an out-patient. And there’s still a chance that he may need a bone marrow transplant.

It sucks that this happened just months into my parents’ retirement. And it sucks that I can’t be there physically for him. I will probably make a trip to Texas this summer and spend some time with my appa.

Please keep my father in your prayers. And I hope your fathers are happy and healthy!

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