From the creator of Iron Baby comes AT-AT Day Afternoon!
Via Laughing Squid.
Ever since I got pregnant I have been encouraging J to go out and spend more time with his friends. I figure that his days of partying will be cut back significantly once the baby arrives, so I like for him to enjoy his last “free” days and get it out of his system as much as possible.
Although I admit that I occasionally get annoyed to find a loud, boisterous, and/or hungover husband, I am okay for the most part because I’m glad that he had a good time. Sometimes he will regale me with long-winded, ridiculous stories that only a fellow drunk could comprehend and I’ll try my best to look understanding while laughing inside. Other times he will come home reeking of alcohol but I don’t have the heart to reprimand him because he will be soooo happy to see me — enough so that he gives the dog’s “omgomgomg I’m so happy you’re home!” greetings a run for their money.
And once in a while, he will tell me things that he normally wouldn’t under sober circumstances.
Last night was one of those nights. While he recapped his night out in-between drunk sloppy kisses and vigorous belly rubs, he made a confession that threw me off my feet.
“I love our daughter already; I really do. But sometimes I get really sad that we’re not having a boy.”
He continued on to describe how jealous he was of his friends who had sons, who continually post on Facebook or send email updates doing “boy” activities together.
“You know you can do all those things with our daughter, right?” I consoled him. “You have my full permission to turn her into a tomboy or a daddy’s little girl. Besides, we can always try for a boy later.”
That seemed to satisfy him for the time being, and he quickly moved on to another subject. However, I couldn’t help but silently dwell on his confession.
Coincidentally, the majority of J’s buddies (guy friends with whom he can talk about parenthood) have sons. So while he has women friends who have daughters, there isn’t anyone he can really relate to, nevermind talk to, about being a father to a daughter.
As I have written previously, I too was disappointed to find out that we were having a girl. But that disappointment has turned to joy as fellow moms told me stories of the incomparable bonds that exist between mothers and daughters.
I’m sure that J is not the only father who has expressed disappointment at expecting a girl over a boy. However, I also know that the vast majority of these fathers become inexplicably attached and fall heads-over-heels in love with their daughters once they are born. As such, I am hoping the same for him.
But in the meantime, is there anything I can do to help him be more excited at the prospect of having a daughter? Do my readers have any suggestions?
While I fully acknowledge the fact that the iPhone is one of the best cell phones worldwide, I can’t help but be miffed by the poor engineering that contributes to the iPhone 4 antenna problem, as well as Apple’s “just don’t hold it that way” attitude toward the issue.
At least the web is full of resources that can create humorous solutions to the problem. Behold — can this be the best way to hold an iPhone 4?
image via Geeks are Sexy
In all seriousness though…here is Gizmodo’s Best Semi-Solutions for the iPhone 4 Reception Problems So Far should you come across the problem yourself.
Ask a Korean! has posted a great (translated) article on a Korean reporter’s comparison between Apple and Samsung in respect to their latest smartphones. After omitting some content that I believed not to be as relevant for purposes of this post, here is a good-sized excerpt:
iPhone users, instead of playing number games, create a word-of-mouth ad that says “You just know the difference once you use it.” This is because Apple is a company that cares about how we use a machine….
Compared to this, Galaxy is not a great product. Although it receives praises of “best functionalities among all the Android phones thus far,” it feels more like a well-rounded thing without a big flaw rather than the best. This is why it is difficult to imagine anyone who would stay up all night to buy Galaxy S, children who jump up and down with joy after receiving Galaxy S, or a friend who is on the verge of tears after receiving a Galaxy S as a gift.
But even the greatest product is meaningless if it is not there by your hands when you want to buy it. Therein lies the greatness of Samsung Electronics….When the demand outstrips the supply, Samsung can conjure the magic of instantly increasing supply by expanding the production line for Product A into the production line that used to make Product B. Apple cannot do this. Instead, Apple takes reservation on the quantity of its products, gets its product based on that deadline, then increases the supply if the order increases. Although Apple is always late to respond to the market, it covers its weakness by its product’s outstanding attractiveness. Apple even goes so far as to use the reactions of the waiting customers in its marketing.
In contrast, if the demand for its products is lukewarm, Samsung Electronics — which runs its own factories — simply changes the production line to produce something more popular. On average, Samsung only takes two months to re-educate its workers for the new line. Samsung’s employees, who are divided into a number of ranks, always endeavor to become a higher-ranked engineers. Because the working environment is dynamic (in other words, not boring,) there is no employee who kills himself; in fact, the job satisfaction for Samsung’s factory workers is on the high side. Furthermore, based on the market’s reaction, Samsung adjusts the amount of production within 48 hours. It is not an exaggeration to say that Samsung has the world’s quickest reaction time among global corporations. Apple cannot order Foxconn to adjust its production within 48 hours. If Apple did that, it would not be able to have the contract that allows for Apple to put out its products at this price. But Samsung makes a lot of cell phones other than smartphones; because Samsung orders so many parts, it can acquire components at prices as low as Apple’s. Samsung also has a production system that is just as efficient as Foxconn. On top of this, Samsung has the advantage of an incredibly fast market-reaction-time that Apple-Foxconn combo would have difficulty achieving. The strength that makes Samsung great is this unique advantage that allows the company to make approximately similar products for cheaper price and put them out in the market when the customers want them. I think the company learned this strategy when it was battling Nokia.
Therefore, my belief is that while Samsung did not build a great product, it built a great factory. Even though it does not make an Anycall phone that drives customers mad in their desire to have, Anycall phones maintained the basic level of quality, were available at appropriate price, and existed at the time and place when the market wanted that product. Instead of trying to be the most innovative company, it seems as if Samsung is trying to be a company that will continue to be in second place even if the first place may change.
Basically, the gist of the article is that Apple creates great products while Samsung has built a great factory.
I have not owned a Samsung phone since cell phone manufactures started using color displays. However, from reading numerous reviews and this reporter’s assessment, I think it’s safe to say that while they are good, they are nowhere as great as the iPhone.
Nonetheless, according to this article, and from what I know of Korea (employment at Samsung — even at one of their factories — is a much-coveted position in South Korea), Samsung has built a splendid factory for itself both in terms of manufacturing process and worker satisfaction.
This far outstrips Foxconn, the Chinese factory that is contracted by Apple to produce its much-beloved products.
While I have waited in line for products — including Apple — in the past, my patience has waned over the years and I can no longer see myself doing this. This may be the impatient, greedy American in me talking, but product availability that meets the market demand is extremely important to me.
How important is product availability to you?
Would you wait in line for a product you craved?
In addition, I always wondered why there hasn’t been more (American) public outcry over the rash of Foxconn suicides. Some say that poor working conditions in countries like China is a way of life. Others attribute the tragic deaths to plain old bad luck — at least from the view of Foxconn. Apple has vowed to keep a closer watch on its Chinese manufacturing leg, and while it’s great that another suicide has not been attempted in almost a month, I was surprised to see that there was no massive campaign (that I know of) to boycott Apple products until the issues had been addressed and solved.
And isn’t it obvious why not? The superiority of Apple’s products outweigh any bad press that may come from the treatment of its workers — contracted or not.
How important are workers’ conditions and
manufacturing processes to you when selecting products?
I have to admit that I, as a typical (see: greedy) American consumer, do not pay much heed to how a product gets there; I much prefer to see whether the product meets my needs, and if so, to purchase it as soon as possible.
But with the Foxconn suicides in mind, one can’t help but wonder if anyone had the deaths in mind while waiting in line for an iPhone 4. Or better yet, how many were even aware of the suicides?
A couple of months ago I forgot to bring my shampoo while staying at my parents’ house.
I stood in the shower pondering my choices. I could use my sister’s Herbal Essences, or the cheap Costco brand that has been sitting in the corner for more than a year.
The thing is, I’m ultra-sensitive to smells (I have always been this way) and if a scent hits me the wrong way, I’ll feel dizzy and nauseous. Hence the lack of candles, oils, etc around the house. My scent sensitivity has naturally heightened with the pregnancy, and so I have only been using unscented or lightly-scented products as a result.
Herbal Essences is NOT lightly-scented. I took a whiff of the stuff and immediately gagged.
So I tepidly turned to the Costco brand — aka Kirkland Signature — and pumped out the teeniest amount. Hmm, not too bad. In fact, the smell was quite pleasant!
I proceeded to lather it into my hair, rinsed, and finished the shower.
As my hair dried, I began to notice just how shiny and bouncy my locks had become. I ended up having a great hair day that day and continued to use the shampoo for the duration of my stay.
I ended up stealing that bottle of shampoo from my parents’ house. (They didn’t mind — they didn’t even know they had it!) I raved about the stuff to J and soon, I discovered that he had started to use it too, ignoring his fancy-schmancy Japanese brand name shampoo.
We ended up finishing the gigantic 40 oz bottle and I immediately looked to replenish my supply. We unfortunately do not have a Costco membership (the only nearby shopping wearhouse is BJ’s), but there are sellers on Amazon who carry the shampoo. The single bottles are no longer available, but the two-packs are ready to be bought at the incredible price of…$12.98.
That’s right. $12.98 for two 40 oz bottles.
Go grab your own right now. Gift the other bottle if it’s too much — whoever receives it will thank you.
Don’t trust my glowing review? Try googling the product and you’ll find nothing but praises for the shampoo. I think that the only reason it isn’t more popular is because Costco generally sells it in the two-packs, covered in cellophane which makes it almost impossible for potential buyers to sniff the product.
While on our babymoon, I noticed a slight line extending up from my public bone.
“I think I’m starting to get my linea nigra,” I told J.
“What’s that?”
“A dark vertical line — usually extending from the belly button and the pubic area — that appears in most pregnancies.”
“You mean a happy trail?”
“No, it’s discoloration of the skin. It’s not hair.”
“But it looks like a happy trail!”
“It’s not a happy trail. It’s a LINEA NIGRA.”
“Haha! You have a happy trail!!!”
Yes, my husband is very mature, wouldn’t you say?
I fully expected my linea nigra to grow darker in the 7 weeks since I first noticed it, but it hasn’t. Before pregnancy, I frankly found the linea nigra to be…well, gross. Now that I have it — albeit a very faint one — I’m not sure what to think. I know that it is a natural part of pregnancy and that it will most likely fade away, but I’m still a bit irked by it.
Did anyone else find their linea nigra to be gross? Maybe I’m the only one — who knows?
I have decided not to outrightly show this picture nor the one below because I know quite a
few readers who prefer not to see uncovered pregnant bellies. If you would like to see my
linea nigra, just click on the image above. To view the extra large version, click here.
I have read that the linea nigra is usually more pronounced on women with dark skin. I’m not sure if it will get any darker than this, but I’m hoping that my pasty white skin will serve me well in this regard. Either way, I will consider it my “battle scar,” along with…
Stretch marks.
Because earlier today, I discovered my first stretch marks. Sigh.
Fortunately, my first stretch marks are not on my belly but rather on my side, where my love handles reside. And since they are only about an inch long, they almost look like marks left by the elastic of my pants.
Click here to view the extra large version
I really, really hope to avoid the kind of stretch marks that will leave my belly looking like it got mauled by a tiger. And I know some women will judge me for writing this, but I don’t care, because I can’t think of a single woman who actually celebrated the appearance of stretch marks.
I know of women who have applied stretch mark prevention cream religiously from the moment they got pregnant, but still managed to get horrible ones. I also know of some who swear up and down that their stretch mark creams worked miracles on their smooth, flawless bellies.
So far I have only been applying cream when I remember (which is usually every few days), and I only use the cheap kind you can find at any supermarket. However, I think I’ll make it a point to start using it more regularly from now on. As for the type of cream, are there any brands that my readers recommend? Are the more expensive ones worth it?
My mother tells me that she only got a scant few stretch marks when she was pregnant, and they all managed to disappear shortly after giving birth. But then again, she’s also a freak of nature who lost all her pregnancy weight and then some — naturally, without every trying — just a couple of months post partum with both kids.
Here’s to hoping for her good genes!
I can already hear them singing from my favorite scene in The Lion King:
“I can see what’s happening…”
“WHAT?”
“And they don’t have a clue…”
“WHO?”
“They’ll fall in love and here’s the bottom line…our trio’s down to two.”
“OH.”
Via Dogguie.
All the mommy/pregnancy blogs I read post tons of nursery inspiration photos, show off all the lovely DIY goodies they have crafted for their child(ren), and seem genuinely excited about filling their homes with baby clothes, toys, and accessories.
Me? Not so much.
Beautiful nurseries are nice, to be sure, but I’m too cheap and lazy to go all out. I would be perfectly happy to add a crib to the (already-bare) guest room and call it a day. J and I have joked about painting a Transformers mural à la Scrubs, but I doubt we will get around to even painting the walls a different color.
As for DIY projects, you can forget about it. As adept as I may be with a pencil/paintbrush/mousepad, I am a total DIY klutz when it comes to actual, hands-on crafts.
I also do not look forward to baby shopping. Like, at all. I still don’t go gaga over cute baby outfits and toys and I doubt that I ever will. I look at “must-have” items such as swings and bouncers and think, “It’ll add so much clutter to our home! Does the baby really NEED this stuff? If our parents did without it, can’t we live without it as well?”
Please tell me I’m not the only mother to feel this way.
These illustrations combining Pixar and Star Wars characters make me smile.
Via Neatorama.