Feb 3, 2012  •  In Aerin, Baby, Claire, Parenting, Personal

Thrush!

Last night, I noticed that Aerin’s tongue was green.  😯

Okay, so it wasn’t that bad. She has always had a white patch on her tongue, which is common in many babies due to their milk/forumla-only diet. But last night, when she happily stuck her tongue out at me during her bath, I noticed that the white patch had taken on a green tinge.

It didn’t seem to be bothering her so I did not feel it warranted a visit to the ER. But I did take her to the doctor first thing this morning to have it checked out, and my suspicions were confirmed: Aerin has thrush.

If you can remember, Claire had a stubborn case of thrush when she was young. In fact, recurring thrush and mastitis infections is the reason I quit breastfeeding her, because it physically became too painful to a point where I was not able to properly take care of her.

For once, I was extremely happy that I am no longer breastfeeding Aerin. Thrush, which is essentially a yeast infection, can be passed from mouth to boob — back and forth — which is what kept happening with me and Claire. And while the pain level from a breast thrush infection varies with each woman, it is extremely painful for most, and in my case, it literally felt like razor blades ripping through my breasts for up to 2 hours after each feeding session.

At its worst, I could not do anything aside from being curled up in a ball of agony with tears streaming down my face. It had also made my holding Claire practically impossible, because every time that anything brushed against my breasts, the pain would start up again.

And that’s when I had decided to quit breastfeeding — because personally, my being able to hold my own child and tend to her needs is more important than any added benefit of breastmilk over formula.

These painful memories all came rushing back to me as the doctor gave us the diagnosis. He said that the infection wasn’t bad, especially since it was localized only to the tongue (thrush tends to spread to the inside of the cheeks, gums, and even the diaper area) and didn’t seem to be bothering Aerin at all.

As for the green color? He told me, “Fungus comes in all colors.”

The first line of attack against oral thrush is nystatin, which we will administer to Aerin three times a day for 2-3 weeks. The problem with nystatin is that it is only effective in about half of all thrush cases. We had been in the unlucky half with Claire, so we had tried yogurt and grapefruit seed extract before finally turning to gentian violet. (Remember Claire’s purple lips and my purple breastmilk?)

I’m keeping my fingers crossed that nystatin will work for Aerin. If not, we will go straight to gentian violet.

Perhaps the most annoying thing about thrush — aside from the pain for the mom — is that we need to disinfect everything that comes in contact with the baby’s mouth during the course of treatment. So, as we have done in the past, we will be boiling everything after each use, and then discarding them and getting new items once the infection is gone.


(image source)

It’s been a tiring morning. Let’s hope that we can beat this infection quickly and effectively. 

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Feb 2, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Geek, Infographics

The Psychology of Color [Infographic]

I have always known that color has the power to influence your mood — for example, did you know that when a certain prison painted its walls pink, acts of agression and physical violence decreased significantly? — and was pleasantly surprised by some of the facts presented in this infographic by PaintersOfLouisville.com.

Case in point: you should not paint a baby’s room yellow, because it makes babies more prone to crying. (I can’t help but think of all the nurseries I’ve seen painted yellow.)

Or, you should stay away from red before, and during exams because it is “associated with the danger of failure in achievement contexts and can evoke avoidance motivation.”

Find out more in the infographic below! (Click to view large.)

Via Bit Rebels.

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Feb 2, 2012  •  In Blogging, Bloggy Thursdays, Geek, WordPress

Bloggy Thursdays: Why I Stopped Using LinkWithin (And Switched to nRelate)

***Update: with the recent discontinuation of nRelate, I have switched over to Contextual Related Posts. (You can see it in action at the bottom of this post!) I was able to customize the widgets fairly easily, and the matching algorithm is probably the best I’ve ever come across!

Welcome to this installment of Bloggy Thursdays, where I share with my fellow bloggers tips and tutorials to maximize and better your blog. While I do not consider myself an expert, I do like to think that after 10+ years of blogging — in addition to my technical knowledge — I know more than the average blogger when it comes to making your blog more appealing to readers.

Do you have any comments, questions, or topics you’d like to see covered here? Please send me a message via my contact form. Enjoy!


While doing some research for today’s Bloggy Thursdays, I stumbled upon an interesting piece of information: LinkWithin, one of the most popular “Related Links” widgets — and certainly a tool that many of my blogger friends use — is not recommended for SEO purposes.

Why? Essentially, LinkWithin is a parasitic widget. The way it works is by redirecting your traffic through their own site, effectively linking to themselves from all over your site and then 301 directing the user back to your site, thus stealing your internal link juice.

(To find out why internal links are important in SEO, check out “The Importance of Internal Linking” at Dragonfly SEO.)

Some of the websites that wrote about this issue stated that LinkWithin has started to do away with this practice, but I still saw it in effect on this blog, under the “Referrers” tab of my stats page:


See all the views from “widget3.linkwithin.com” and similar?

Aside from SEO issues, I also did not like the fact that LinkWithin’s extra step of redirecting traffic may cause visitors additional delays.

So what’s a blogger to do?

If you are using WordPress, one easy step is to install the popular Yet Another Related Posts Plugin (YARPP). However, the biggest drawback to this plugin is that while it does provide templates, it can still be difficult to configure and customize the output, especially if you aren’t familiar with PHP and/or CSS.

Another good option is Outbrain, which is used by some of the most popular sites on the web, but this service requires that you receive more than 500,000 visitors a month.

This is when I came across nRelate’s Related Content widget.

(And for non-WordPress bloggers, nRelate is also available for Blogger and Tumblr! They are also in the process of rolling out versions for Drupal, Typepad, and others!)

Installing nRelate is as simple as installing any other WordPress plugin: just download, install, and activate. And unlike LinkWithin, nRelate has an extensive options panel built right into WordPress’s admin.

And here is where you can experience the best part about nRelate — all the customizations! You can:

  • change the size of your thumbnails
  • easily change the title for the related content box
  • specify a default image for when the post does not have any images
  • choose your level of relevancy
  • choose to exclude certain categories
  • …and much, much more!

You can also choose from a list of seven different styles for your thumbnails, which you can further customize via CSS, or create a completely customized style yourself.

nRelate also has an optional advertisement program that can earn you some money by inserting custom ad spaces within your related content. The best part is that it allows you to configure not just how many ad spaces to include, but also the location such as before or after your own related post content, or have the location randomized. (I will not be employing this at the time, but I may consider it in the future.)

Another great product that nRelate offers is its Most Popular widget, which does exactly what its name implies by displaying thumbnails (or even just text links) just as its Related Content widget does.

nRelate needs at least 2 hours to index your site and for its widget to start appearing — and since I currently have 1,625 posts on this blog  😯 — it hasn’t started to show up on my site yet. However, you can see an example via their site, or just by Googling “nRelate examples.”

If what I have read online is true, the Related Content widget will start working flawlessly as soon as nRelate finishes indexing my site. I will definitely post a follow-up to this post if I find nRelate unsatisfactory in any way!


Update, December 2014:
Many nRelate users (including myself) were dismayed to find that nRelate will be closing its doors come 2015. After doing much research — and trials! — on the subject, I have decided to switch to Contextual Related Posts. It is free to use, and the algorithm is better than anything I’ve seen yet.

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Feb 1, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Geek, Personal

Cubicleism: Amazing Office Whiteboard Art

At my very first full-time job, I had a huge whiteboard hanging in my cubicle. I used this whiteboard to mostly write reminders for myself and coworkers, but sometimes we would leave messages for each other (à la whiteboards on the doors of college dormrooms), and once in a while they would become spaces for creative doodles and inside jokes.

I believe that my finest work on this whiteboard derived from the time someone stole my stapler — too bad it wasn’t a red Swingline stapler! 😉 — and I drew a cartoon of Milton from the movie Office Space asking, “Do you have my stapler?”

I thought that cartoon was pretty dope, and received many compliments on it. (Sadly, I never took a picture.) I continued to draw little funnies on my whiteboard for coworkers to enjoy, and have always been proud of myself for these pieces of whiteboard art…

Until now.

Because Bill Taylor, a data manager from North Carolina, has officially taken the crown for office whiteboard art — art so elaborate and impressive that it makes all other whiteboard doodles look like chicken scratch in comparison.

Bill spends about 2-5 minutes each day sketching with his personal supply of dry erase markers, and takes an average of about six weeks to finish each piece. Once he is finished, he says, “I’ll leave it up for a couple of days before I erase it. People ask me all the time if it’s painful to erase them when they are done. Honestly, no, because I’m always excited about starting on the next one.”

Be sure to check out more of Bill’s masterpieces at his blog, Cubicleism. I personally love the blog’s tagline, “Searching for the mythical gray dry-erase marker…” 🙂

Via My Modern Met.

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Feb 1, 2012  •  In Aerin, Claire, Motherhood, Personal, Reviews, Science

Claire’s First Trip to the Liberty Science Center

First children are bound to feel neglected and resentful at times when a younger sibling comes along. So far, Claire has been doing splendidly with the addition of Aerin into our lives, but there are moments here and there where I can see the sadness in her eyes when we are preoccupied with Aerin. 🙁

To help her know that we will never stop loving her, this past Sunday, we decided to give Claire some “alone” time with mommy and daddy by taking her to the Liberty Science Center. (J’s parents graciously agreed to watch Aerin while we were out.) We actually live just 15 minutes away from this wonderful, interactive science museum and I had been dying to take Claire for ages.


The Liberty Science Center is New Jersey’s largest and newest museum, and also houses
the nation’s largest IMAX Dome. 

The entrance to the Science Center is grand, with an expanding & collapsing sphere by Chuck Hoberman. We spent quite some time in the main lobby so that Claire could stare up at the sphere. I think she could have spent hours there if we hadn’t dragged her away.


(image source)

Claire is still too young to enjoy the majority of the museum. The very first exhibit we entered was called Energy Quest, which explores various types of energy, and our overly shy and cautious daughter seemed more scared than captivated by the loud and startling stations.

So we decided to move on to Our Hudson Home, which we knew housed some large fishtanks, and score! She LOVED it.

(Before I go on, I must apologize for the quality of the following pictures. Someone — ahem! — forgot to check the battery on our camera before we left the house, so all the photos from this outing were taken with a cell phone camera.)

She loved the fish so much that even when we had seen everything and tried to exit the exhibition, she repeatedly turned around to go back for more.

Other highlights of the day included a floating beach ball…

And an exhibition called Eat and Be Eaten which had more live animals.

As stated above, most of the exhibitions were much too advanced for our 16-month-old. However, whenever we saw a button we let her press it. She loves buttons (she even knows which buttons to press for our building’s elevator!) and pressing each one to see an interactive display unfold made her squeal and clap on more than one occasion.


It makes me sad to think that she might not know what these are when she grows up.

We would have loved to have visited the I Explore exhibition, which is specifically designed for kids aged 2-5, but there was a private party going on there at the time. 🙁  There’s always next time, right?

J and I have agreed that we will almost definitely be purchasing a family membership to the Liberty Science Center when our kids get a bit older. We may even plan a birthday party there — I checked, and the prices aren’t as exorbitant as I had feared.

In the meantime, I plan to continue to visit with my eldest in tow whenever we need some “mommy & me” time…..and when Aerin gets old enough to appreciate the Science Center too, I am guessing that we will be making numerous family trips.

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Jan 31, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Books

Noma Bar’s Guess Who?

I recently came across some minimalist portraits of cultural icons by Israeli illustrator Noma Bar. I was immediately drawn to these pieces for their brilliant use of negative space, elegant subtlety, as well as Bar’s use of an object or symbol embedded in the design that helps identify the subject. (I especially love Bill Murray’s!)

Can you guess them all?

 

All these illustrations, and many more, can be found in the book Guess Who?: The Many Faces of Noma Bar.

Via Brain Pickings.

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Jan 31, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Cool Tool Tuesdays, Facebook, Photography, Web

Cool Tool Tuesdays: MCP Free Facebook Fix Photoshop Actions

Welcome to today’s installment of Cool Tool Tuesdays, where I feature a favorite item from my life and spotlight it so that others who are not familiar with the product may also benefit from it. A cool tool can be any book, gadget, software, hardware, material, or website that I have personally tried and love.

Do you have any questions about today’s cool tool? Would you like an item featured in the future? Please leave a comment to this post, or send me a message via my contact form. Enjoy!


If you are a regular Photoshop user, you are probably familiar with Photoshop Actions.

If you have no idea what Photoshop Actions are, go read “What Are Photoshop Actions?” over at the MCP Photography Blog. You can also check out this FAQ at Totally Rad for more information, instructions, and tips on installing and using actions.

Now that we’re set on that, let’s move on to today’s Cool Tool: MCP Actions’ Free Facebook Fix Photoshop Actions!

This FREE set of actions for Photoshop and Photoshop Elements includes 11 actions to resize, sharpen, watermark, and brand your photos. Why does it include Facebook in its name? Because this set is created with Facebook in mind by not only resizing the photos to Facebook’s 960px-wide gallery interface, but it also converts your photo’s color profile to sRGB IEC61966-2.1, which optimizes your picture’s colors for the web.

The Free Facebook Fix Photoshop Actions also include one of the best sharpening actions I’ve come across. Take a look at the following picture of Aerin, before I ran the Free Facebook Fix Photoshop Action and after:

The difference is subtle, but noticeable. (Click on the image to see the full version.) The effect is remarkably evident in the eyes — the sharpening action creates a bright and alert look to practically every pair of eyes I’ve run it through.

MCP also offers the sharpening action by itself, called Free High Definition Sharpening Photoshop Actions. I use these as the final step in almost all my pictures, and I know that many professional photographers do too!

Be sure to check out the rest of MCP’s amazing actions. While most of the sets are $30 and up (the whole shebang is $1085 😯 ), many amazing sets can be downloaded for free here.

And, as referenced above, Totally Rad is another company that offers amazing Photoshop Actions. I’m so glad I purchased TRA1 and TRA2 when I was still working full-time and had the money to spend, because I use their actions on almost all of my pictures too.

Don’t have Photoshop? Both MCP and Totally Rad offer Lightroom Preset versions of their Photoshop Actions, and many of my photographer friends prefer Lightroom to Photoshop. And while Photoshop Elements is not quite as powerful as Photoshop itself, it has most of the tools that non-professionals require — not to mention that it is a steal (at least compared to regular Photoshop) at $79.

You can also find hundreds of FREE and amazing Photoshop Actions just by searching for them. If you are not sure where to start, here’s an article called “The Ultimate Collection of Useful Photoshop Actions” which showcases more than 350 actions that are handpicked by Smashing Magazine.

Enjoy, and action away!

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Jan 30, 2012  •  In Christianity, Funny, Sports

The Tim Hawkins Guide to Worship Signals

In preparation for Superbowl XLVI, Christian comedian Tim Hawkins has created this official handbook of worship signals…non-denominational, of course. 😉  I’m sure all my Christian readers — in addition to anyone else who have witnessed passionate Christian worship — will appreciate this with a big laugh.

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Jan 30, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Giveaways, Marketing/Advertising

Win a Set of 500 Business Cards from Next Day Flyers! [Giveaway]

Are you suffering from a case of the Mondays? Well, I’ve got good news for you, because this week I’m offering an exciting giveaway from Next Day Flyers!

Next Day Flyers is an online printing company that delivers top-quality printed marketing materials with one of the fastest turnaround times in the industry. Their printing procedure is environmentally friendly with the use of recycled materials and waste-reducing processes. All print jobs are subjected to a 33 quality checkpoints before being shipped, and their Online Design Center ensures that designing, and ordering print jobs are as easy and painless as possible.

Next Day Flyers has operated out of Los Angeles for the past 13 years, but they recently opened a new printing facility in New Jersey which means that not only can customers take advantage of the dual-coast time zones with extended business hours, they can also benefit from faster printing and lower shipping costs.

To celebrate the opening of their new, solar-powered facility, Next Day Flyers has graciously offered to give one of my readers a FREE set of 500 business cards! The cards can be printed in full color on both sides, on 14PT ultra-thick cardstock with a UV or matte coating. Next Day Flyers has also offered the winner of this giveaway free shipping within the United States.

Keep in mind that you don’t need to use business cards just for business purposes! You can use this credit to print coupons, save-the-dates, appointment cards, or even mini greeting cards. Since Next Day Flyers allows you to upload your own design, the possibilities are endless.

To enter this giveaway, simply use the Rafflecopter widget below. Not sure how to use Rafflecopter? Watch this 45 second video for a tutorial on how to enter a giveaway using Rafflecopter. There are 5 methods of entry, with the first method (commenting on this blog post) being mandatory while the third method (Tweeting about the giveaway) can be used once per day:


This giveaway will end on Friday, February 3rd, 2012, at 11:59pm, at which point a winner will be randomly chosen and announced here.

Please use a valid email address and/or Twitter handle so that I can contact you if you win!

Sorry, this giveaway is open only to residents of the United States.

Good luck, and thanks for entering!

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Jan 29, 2012  •  In Art/Design, Entertainment

Can You Recognize Them All?

A good illustrator can capture the essence of a person or a character without having to make the illustration look exactly like the person it is based on. And this is precisely what Anna Rettberg has done in the following illustrated mashup of popular television characters from various shows.

Check them out — isn’t it amazing how these characters can be immediately recognized with the use of one prop, a certain pose, and/or facial expression?

That, or I watch wayyyy too much TV. 😛

Can you recognize them all? I will post the answers as the first comment to this post!

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